OT: waaaaaaay OT....

[Bordy]

Send My bro Rusty an e-mail Ladies. BOL dating service has to work at some point

Rusty, Rusty, Rusty, Rusty.....Da Man the Ladies love......

[ncermak]

Aisling...

after two years of flirting with you, you finally come around and show some interest! (after all...I am a damn nice guy...If I do say so my damn self). Unfortunately for you (and probably for me), I recently off the market. So I gotta agree with Bordy: RUSTY, RUSTY, RUSTY!!!!

-Noah


and another thing. All this time I just assumed Michelle was Fin's wife...I guess I cant consider Bomber a Mom and Pop company?

[Aisling]

Noah... flirting gets you nowhere, everyone flirts!!
you have to show some actual interest. LOL



rusty is in his 40s? or is that randy? oh hell i'm lost and i dont' want to stop for directions.... must be all the time i spend talking to GUYS. hahaha

[Aisling]

oooh. rusty is from NH... he'd have to be a reaaaaaaaally nice guy for me to travel for him

haha

[Michelle]

I'm just amazed at the response this thread is getting. Aisling, seems like you have a nice following there!

Joecarve, if they are already housebroken, they are usually taken. And if they have been housebroken by someone else, they have issues. See, damned if you do......

[lonerider]

Originally posted by Michelle
I'm just amazed at the response this thread is getting. Aisling, seems like you have a nice following there!

Joecarve, if they are already housebroken, they are usually taken. And if they have been housebroken by someone else, they have issues. See, damned if you do......

Amazed?

An available attractive female that snowboards posts that she can't find a good man in a hardcore snowboarding forum where most of the members are males who are so into snowboarding that their social lives probably have suffered a bit due to the fact they are out of town around half the weekends of the year... and now they see the chance to have their cake and eat it too (I never understood that phrase).

And you wonder why people are jumping out of the woodwork? Seems totally predictable to me... although I was surprised at how many people have tried Internet dating sites... sounds like these sites are much better established and are more viable than I had imagined.

[Aisling]

Originally posted by Michelle
I'm just amazed at the response this thread is getting. Aisling, seems like you have a nice following there!

Joecarve, if they are already housebroken, they are usually taken. And if they have been housebroken by someone else, they have issues. See, damned if you do......

LOL i dunno about a following... i think everyone is just as bored as i am. hahaha

but you're right about the damned if you do , damned if ya don't... soooooo true.

[Aisling]

Originally posted by lonerider
although I was surprised at how many people have tried Internet dating sites... sounds like these sites are much better established and are more viable than I had imagined.

i was surprised at that myself... i find the online services a little creepy... at least here i'm among some friends.

[Michelle]

Originally posted by lonerider
Amazed?

An available attractive female that snowboards posts that she can't find a good man in a hardcore snowboarding forum where most of the members are males who are so into snowboarding that their social lives probably have suffered a bit due to the fact they are out of town around half the weekends of the year... and now they see the chance to have their cake and eat it too (I never understood that phrase).

And you wonder why people are jumping out of the woodwork? Seems totally predictable to me... although I was surprised at how many people have tried Internet dating sites... sounds like these sites are much better established and are more viable than I had imagined.

How do you know we're attractive???? Of course, we've all seen the photo of Aisling...

You would think a guy would jump for the chance, but it's not the case. It's really hard to find a quality person in this world, guys or girls. One that you get along with, actually like spending time with and have fun with, are physically compatible, and likes to do the same things as you is unheard of. And if they are not pyscho or abusive, BONUS! I just can't believe that people actually meet, date, stay in a relationship, get married, and stay married. And have a good, fun marriage! I'm a skeptic, I have to admit. I know they are out there, because a lot of you are experiencing them, but for some people it's not in the stars.

And I am also amazed at the people who have tried internet dating. I too find them creepy, but at this point in the world define creepy.....

So should I start a Bomberonline dating service?? I'll see what Fin has to say about that.....

[lonerider]

Originally posted by Michelle
How do you know we're attractive???? Of course, we've all seen the photo of Aisling...

And there is a photo of you in the Profile section of BOL.

Originally posted by Michelle
You would think a guy would jump for the chance, but it's not the case. It's really hard to find a quality person in this world, guys or girls. One that you get along with, actually like spending time with and have fun with, are physically compatible, and likes to do the same things as you is unheard of. And if they are not pyscho or abusive, BONUS! I just can't believe that people actually meet, date, stay in a relationship, get married, and stay married. And have a good, fun marriage! I'm a skeptic, I have to admit. I know they are out there, because a lot of you are experiencing them, but for some people it's not in the stars. [/B]

My theory is that guys and girls look in all the wrong places... basically if you meet someone at a place you are looking to "meet" someone (bars, clubs, ultimate fighting championships...) they are automatically probably not the person you are looking to meet. At least how is seems to me. Usually there is a chance encounter and you hit it off... So basically the way to find someone is to *not* look for someone... and have them find you! (very zen-like isn't it?) This will greatly decrease the number of people you meet... but I hypothesize that it improves the quality of people you meet.

[Tommy D]

Originally posted by lonerider

My theory is that guys and girls look in all the wrong places... basically if you meet someone at a place you are looking to "meet" someone (bars, clubs, ultimate fighting championships...) they are automatically probably not the person you are looking to meet. At least how is seems to me. Usually there is a chance encounter and you hit it off... So basically the way to find someone is to *not* look for someone... and have them find you! (very zen-like isn't it?) This will greatly decrease the number of people you meet... but I hypothesize that it improves the quality of people you meet.

I have to agree 100% with that!!! Not once have I ever met anyone REALLY interesting in a bar/club/UFC. Oh, they are nice people, but totally NOT what I am looking for.

All the successfull relationships I've had (All two of them, including my current!) have been with people I met by chance. IMO, those are more fun, too!!!

[Aisling]

Originally posted by lonerider
And there is a photo of you in the Profile section of BOL.



My theory is that guys and girls look in all the wrong places... basically if you meet someone at a place you are looking to "meet" someone (bars, clubs, ultimate fighting championships...) they are automatically probably not the person you are looking to meet. At least how is seems to me. Usually there is a chance encounter and you hit it off... So basically the way to find someone is to *not* look for someone... and have them find you! (very zen-like isn't it?) This will greatly decrease the number of people you meet... but I hypothesize that it improves the quality of people you meet.

oh i'm never lookin really... i usually get hit over the head with a frying pan LOL


really i'm just venting... and michelle is right about everything ... cause i'm a complete skeptic lately and its for very good reasons!

[Michelle]

Originally posted by Aisling
oh i'm never lookin really... i usually get hit over the head with a frying pan LOL

That's what happened to me! I certainly wasn't looking either. Sometimes it just happens, and you can't help it.

I can't believe someone thinks I'm right???? WOW, what a bonus for the evening....

[Jack Michaud]

I for one, would like to see Aisling mix it up on Elimidate. Rowrrr!

[Rusty]

oooh. rusty is from NH... he'd have to be a reaaaaaaaally nice guy for me to travel for him

Well I don't know if I'm that nice...maybe just reaaally nice and a little evil. *insert wry smile*

Jheese, ya make it sound like NH is another country. I could practically throw rock into MA from my house.

I think that's Randy that's in his 40's, (not that there's anything wrong with that) I'm not quite there yet. Another 6 years before I join those ranks.


Billy/Noah...Thanks for the cheering section, that cracked me up.

[ncermak]

always willing to help out a fellow new hampshire boy...I used to live in Newbury and ride sunapee...I know how hard it is find a good one in the area.

Aisling - Dont be afraid of younger men! RUS-TY RUS-TY RUS-TY!!!!

[Randy S.]

Yes, its me who is the old fart at 41. It hasn't slowed me down too much though. Oh, and I used to live in NH. I grew up in Bedford. In high school I ski raced at Pat's Peak and McIntyre and did a lot of skiing at Cannon, Loon, Waterville, Killington, Stowe and Sunday River. I can't say that I miss it too much though. We have pretty amazing weather and riding here in CA. Oh, and lots of good looking women - even good looking women who are 40+. I think I'll refrain from chiming in on the debate about whether marriage is great or marriage sucks. I've lived through both stages and I'm quite happy where I am. Aisling & Michelle, when you sign up for match.com, be sure to wink at me (screen name is sinecure - just do a search).

[patmoore]

Gotta chime in here. I was married for 24 years and then had 8 off for good behavior. Jumped back into the fray and we just had our 4th anniversary.

In the intervening years I had to be retrained. The last time I had been on a date was during LBJ's administration. The local Sunday night singles dance was great for dancing but I never met anyone one I wanted to go out with. Online dating was a new thing then - there were no commercial services like match.com but AOL and Prodigy had some ways to meet people. By my count I had 17 different dates that way and all were enjoyable. It was clear many wouldn't go beyond the first date but we still had a nice time. A few developed into short term relationships.

It wasn't until I joined a Connecticut-based ski club that I met women I was interested in. That's where I met my wife. The club is a social club as much as it is a winter sports club. It's as active in the summer as it is in the winter. See: www.mtlski.com

My ski club welcomes boarders and I suspect that's true of most others. check your local area to see if there is a comparable organization.

Good luck!

[Dave Pushee]

RUSTY! Damn, he's young enough to be my son but don't hold that against him. If I've done the math right, I was already married 2 years when he was born. Sorry ladies, still married - but I do live in NH.

[Michelle]

Originally posted by Randy S.
even good looking women who are 40+.

What does that mean???

Have you guys seen this? This should be the qualities all men should look for, no matter what the age.

Over 40



As I grow in age, I value women who are over 40 most of all. Here
are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to
ask, What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit
around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And
it's usually something more interesting.

A woman over 40 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she
is,what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the
age of 40 give a damn what you might think about her or what she's
doing.

Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match
with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant.
Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if
they think they can get away with it...

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know
what it's like to be unappreciated.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins
to a woman over 40. They always know.

A woman over 40 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is
not true of younger women or drag queens.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier
than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off
you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to
wonder where you stand with her....

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons.
Unfortunately, it's not always reciprocal. For every stunning,
smart, well-coiffed, hot woman of 40+, there is a bald, paunchy
relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-
old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize for all of us.
Andy Rooney

[Jack Michaud]

BEWARE THE COUGAR!!!

[bobdea]

ohh yes yes they do
any 40ish women on the prowl for a youngling of 24 years apply below where it says email

[Randy S.]

Originally posted by Michelle
As I grow in age, I value women who are over 40 most of all. Here
are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to
ask, What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

+1

A woman over 40 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is
not true of younger women or drag queens.

True

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier
than her younger counterpart.

And in my experience, way better in bed.

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons.
Unfortunately, it's not always reciprocal. For every stunning,
smart, well-coiffed, hot woman of 40+, there is a bald, paunchy
relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-
old waitress.

Hey, watch it! I resemble that remark (well all but the yellow pants and 22 year-old waitress)

Andy Rooney - never PC


What did I mean by my comment about lots of good looking women over 40? What I meant was that we have lots of good looking woment in California. This is in contrast to my experience living in New England, where the women are just so-so looking in general (sorry Ais - I'm sure you are great looking, but I don't know since the only photo you've posted is of your chest ). Women of all ages are great looking in CA, especially the ones over 40, who are great looking and fun to be with.

[Jack Michaud]

Originally posted by Randy S.
This is in contrast to my experience living in New England, where the women are just so-so looking in general

You might think so, but I'll never forget my admissions tour at the University of New Hampshire (which is where I ended up going) - that place is a friggin' hotbed of 9s and 10s. I have no explanation for why this is, but day-em! I practically had to wear a jock just to walk across campus!

[SWriverstone]

Ha! This thread is a riot. I'm 42, and very much in love for the first time in my life (with a wonderful woman/carver/motorcyclist/bicyclist/kayaker/hang glider pilot named Holly).

Let me just say for the record that for the first 40 years of my life, I was a DUMBASS. Too self-centered, letting the little head do the thinking, etc. Got married and divorced twice. Sometimes it takes a while for us to grow up (guys and girls alike).

Sorry guys in your 20s...but when you're 40, you'll realize what an idiot you were! (Even if you did have some fun.)

Scott

[Michelle]

Originally posted by SWriverstone

Sorry guys in your 20s...but when you're 40, you'll realize what an idiot you were! (Even if you did have some fun.)

Scott

Hopefully there are some guys older than 20 that will realize this as well. Congrats man! Holly is a lucky woman to have someone that appreciates a good person in their life. (gosh, I'm such a romantic....) Hope she is doing well, by the way!

[SWriverstone]

Originally posted by Michelle
Hopefully there are some guys older than 20 that will realize this as well. Congrats man! Holly is a lucky woman to have someone that appreciates a good person in their life. (gosh, I'm such a romantic....) Hope she is doing well, by the way!

Thanks Michelle! Holly's doing great---she got the last bits of metal removed from her jaws this morning---WOOHOO! We've been kayaking (just flatwater for now, but whitewater soon) and cycling...and Holly wants to fly again before long!

Scott

[Neil Gendzwill]

This cracked my **** up - from that best of craigslist thing Arvin posted: Are you my soul mate?

[patmoore]

Neil - that's sensational and sure to get results.

My favorite Personals Ad was from a woman who started her ad with this: "Let's get one thing straight from the start. I HATE long walks on beaches!!"

[skatha]

Okay, thanks for the post about women over 40-I'm 41 and, I must say, I resemble that remark, esp. the one about wondering what you think of me-Honey, I don't care-if you're my friend, you must think I'm okay....
As for online services, if you are HONEST and you find someone who was also honest, it's fine...The best thing about Sam was he was outdoorsy-I liked him before I ever saw him. We spent about 6 weeks emailing and calling before the first date, mainly because we both had kids and wanted to be careful. I liked the fact that we had mutual interests and then were attracted to each other, rather than the attraction begetting a search for mutual interests, like with my ex-
Sam was also the person who suggested snowboarding-he's a skiier in love with Lake Tahoe and I was a 38 year old with a twice operated on rt. knee....Skiing was out since I was 17-I specifically asked both operating surgeons in 81 and 89 and they both said "No"...
So the fact I'm even here is due to Sam...
Of course, I am obsessed with snowboarding, now.....
I assured him I won't be buying anything new THIS year, though..